13-14 month

Week 56: How to Encourage the First Steps

Toddler taking first steps with parental support, developing gross motor skills and learning to walk in a safe, Montessori-inspired environment.

Taking the first steps is a significant milestone in your toddler's development. Typically, toddlers take their first steps around their first birthday, though this can vary widely. Some start walking earlier, while others may take their first steps a bit later. Regardless of the timing, your role as a parent is crucial in supporting and encouraging them along this journey.

 

1. Play While Standing

Standing is a critical precursor to walking. Encourage your toddler to stand by placing their favorite toys, books, or PlayTools on a table or surface just within their reach. This encourages them to pull themselves up to a standing position. Furniture like low tables or couches can also be great for helping them practice standing.

2. Create a Safe Space for Exploration

Ensure that your home is safe and conducive to movement. Moving furniture closer together can help create a path that encourages your toddler to move between pieces. Make sure to cover sharp corners and remove any obstacles that could cause falls, ensuring a safe environment for them to explore their newfound mobility.

3. Incorporate Mirrors

Mirrors are excellent tools for encouraging standing and walking. You can hang a curtain rod or ballet barre at their level and place a mirror below it. Watching themselves in the mirror while holding onto the rod helps them develop body awareness and balance. This Montessori-inspired method is commonly used in classrooms to encourage gross motor skills.

4. Help Your Baby Squat and Stand

Assist your toddler in practicing the movements required for walking by helping them squat and then stand. Sit with your baby on your lap, guide their hips into a standing position, and then help them back down. This movement strengthens their leg muscles and familiarizes them with the motions of standing and walking.

5. Celebrate Falls

Falling is a natural part of learning to walk. Instead of fearing falls, celebrate them as part of the learning process. Offer comfort and encouragement when your toddler stumbles, reinforcing their resilience and determination to keep trying. Use positive language like, "You're doing great! Let's try again."

6. Incorporate Fun Games

Turn the process of learning to walk into a game. For example, tape tissues or other lightweight objects to a wall at a low height for your toddler to reach while standing. You can also use magnets on a fridge as a fun and interactive way to encourage standing and walking. Make sure the objects are safe and won't break easily.

 

Encouraging your toddler's first steps is a joyous and sometimes challenging experience. By creating a safe environment, incorporating fun activities, and offering plenty of encouragement, you can help your little one develop the confidence and skills they need to take those first wobbly steps. Remember, every child develops at their own pace, so be patient and celebrate each small victory along the way. Soon enough, your toddler will be cruising around with newfound independence!

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